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Fred Guttenberg has dedicated his life to ending gun violence since his daughter, Jaime Guttenberg, was shot and killed at her high school in Parkland, FL. Now, every Father's Day, he unites dads across America to join the fight to save lives. Scroll on to read the letter and show your support for #DadsForGunSafety.

The Open Letter

To Every Dad Across America:

My name is Fred Guttenberg and I am a father of two children, Jesse and Jaime. I am writing to you because we need to talk — father-to-father — about what’s killing our children and tearing apart our families: America’s gun violence epidemic. 

On February 14, 2018, my 14-year-old daughter, Jaime Guttenberg, was murdered by a man armed with an assault weapon, alongside 13 other children and three of their teachers at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, FL. My son Jesse, now 20, survived the shooting and lives with the permanent scars of having heard his sister get shot.

Add Your Name for #DadsForGunSafety

Just days ahead of Father’s Day, I am asking you to join me and the many dads who have signed onto this letter to show your support for a national movement of #DadsForGunSafety.

Help Parkland dad Fred Guttenberg reach his goal of getting 1,000,000 Americans to show their support for his #DadsForGunSafety movement.

I am asking you to join us to help save lives. Every year, a devastating 40,000 people in America are killed with guns in incidents of mass shootings, domestic and community violence, hate crimes, suicide, and family fire. According to one study, a child or teen is killed with a gun every 2 hours and 34 minutes in this country. 

These aren’t just statistics. They are our children who will never come home from school. They are the empty seats at graduation ceremonies, family vacations, and Father’s Day BBQs. They are the irreplaceable losses that torture us every day. I miss Jaime every single waking moment.

I’ve been partnering with Brady and other leaders across the gun violence prevention movement because I believe that we can each take action, not sides, to find common ground to end this epidemic. We cannot keep living like this in America. Something has to change. I think all dads and all those who act as dads will agree.

So, please, I am asking you, dad-to-dad, to join me in this fight.

As dads, we can unite to resist the gun lobby’s dangerous lies — lies that tell us masculinity is tied to a toxic gun obsession, that perpetuate the myth of “good guys with guns,” that market assault weapons to us as toys instead of lethal weapons of war. We have a role here. Men are more likely to be the perpetrators of gun violence. Men are more likely to be the ones to die by gun suicide. Men are more likely to be gun owners.

Congress can act today, but only if we speak out together in the strongest swell of dads dedicated to saving lives we have ever seen.

My family of four before gun violence broke us.

The Senate must pass universal background checks on gun sales, which is supported by an astounding 90 percent of voters, including 90 percent of gun owners. Congress must provide funding for all 50 states to pass and effectively implement extreme risk laws, which are tools proven to prevent firearm suicides as well as mass shootings. We must adequately fund community violence prevention programs, like the $5 billion proposed in President Biden’s American Jobs Plan, to effectively address gun violence through investment and wraparound services for communities most disproportionately impacted by gun violence, particularly communities of color. We must demand that America reinstate a federal assault weapons ban so that these weapons of war cannot be used to senselessly murder Americans like Jaime and her peers ever again. Join me and Brady in taking these actions.

  • Expand Brady Background Checks

    Urge Congress to expand Brady Background Checks to cover all gun sales, including those sold online and at gun shows.

  • Ban Deadly Assault Weapons

    Urge Congress to ban assault weapons and large-capacity magazines, once and for all.

  • Implement Extreme Risk Laws

    Urge Congress to implement extreme risk laws to temporarily remove firearms from a person in crisis who may harm themselves or others.

I was supposed to be a proud father sitting in the stands to watch Jaime accept her high school diploma. But Jaime didn’t get to walk across that stage. Instead, I spent Jaime’s would-be graduation day visiting her grave.

I was supposed to be a proud father sitting in the stands to watch Jaime accept her high school diploma. But Jaime didn’t get to walk across that stage. Instead, I spent Jaime’s would-be graduation day visiting her grave.

I don’t want any other dad to endure this suffering. My vision is not radical. It is sensible and simple: an America without the threat of being shot and killed at school, at work, at church, at the mall, at home, and at every corner. 

I cannot do it alone. Let’s do it together. 

Dads, you can own guns and still support gun safety. Let’s unite to save the lives of our families and those we love. This Father’s Day, let’s awaken a new part of the movement.

In solidarity,

Fred Guttenberg
Jaime and Jesse’s dad

Fellow #DadForGunSafety Cosigners

Thank you to these many dads — who represent a broad swath of business leaders, elected officials, policymakers, actors, athletes, and more — for showing their support in Brady’s and my call to action this Father’s Day. Follow @bradybuzz and @fred_guttenberg on Twitter to learn how you can get involved.

Alan Wurtzel, Brady Board MemberRep. Colin Allred, U.S. Representative (TX-35)Jose Andres, Chef, HumanitarianMike Anestis, Ph.D., Executive Director, New Jersey Gun Violence Research Center
Judd Apatow, Film DirectorRep. Jake Auchincloss, U.S. Representative (MA-04)Rev. Dr. William J Barber II, President of Repairers of the Breach and Pastor, Greenleaf Christian Church Gene Bernstein, Brady Board Member
Macon Blair, FilmmakerSeamus Blackley, Physicist, CEO, Pacific Light & HologramCharles Blek, Brady Chapter Member, SurvivorRob Bonta, California Attorney General
Adam Brody, ActorJason Robert Brown, Composer and PlaywrightMichael Buckley, Brady Board MemberLouis Caldera, Distinguished Adjunct Professor of Law and former Secretary of the Army
Rep. Sean Casten, US Representative (IL-06)David Chiu, California Assemblymember, 17th DistrictMark Collins, Brady Senior Federal Policy ManagerCraig Counsell, Manager, Milwaukee Brewers
Bryan Cranston, ActorRep. Jason Crow, U.S. Representative (CO-6)Jon Cryer, ActorBill D’Elia, Director-Producer
Rep. Ted Deutch, U.S. Representative (FL-22)Robert Disney, Brady Organizing DirectorGriffin Dix, Survivor, Kenzo’s DadThomas Dixon, Pastor
Arne Duncan, Obama Secretary of EducationJonathan Eshak, Mick ManagementMike Feuer, Los Angeles City AttorneyFrank Figliuzzi, FBI Assistant Director, Retired
Chris Fralic, Board Partner First Round CapitalMichael Franti, Activist, and MusicianMorgan J. Freeman, Film DirectorTom Gabor, Criminologist, and Gun Violence Author
Jesse Gabriel, California Assemblymember, 45th DistrictStuart Gabriel, Distinguished Professor, UCLAEric Garcetti, Mayor of Los AngelesVincent Geraghty, Co-Founder Hearty, Dad of Walter, Thompson, and Margie
Scott Gerber, Managing Director, Meridian CommercialWendell Gilliard, South Carolina House of Representatives, 111th DistrictAndy Goddard, Legislative Director, Virginia Center for Public SafetyMark Hammill, Actor
Pete Harckman, New York State Senator, District 40Jamie Harrison, Chair, DNCMilford Hayes, Detective, Husband of Rep. Jahana Hayes (CT-05)Dan Helmer, Member, Virginia House of Delegates, District 40
Al Hoffman, Former US Ambassador to Portugal under President George W. BushJoe’Mar Hooper, Executive Director of Safe & SoundBen Jackson, Co-founder, NoRADean Jayson, J3, EVP Global Digital Product Lead
Greg Kahn, CEO, GK Digital VenturesJason Kander, Former Missouri Secretary of StateTerence Kawaja, CEO and Founder, LUMA PartnersSteve Kerr, Survivor, Warriors Head Coach
Ro Khanna, U.S. Representative (CA-17)Rep. Andy Kim, U.S. Representative (NJ-03)John D. Kimball, Adjunct Professor, NYU Law SchoolCongressman Ro Khanna (CA-17)
Rep. John Larson, US Representative (CT-01)Brian Lemek, Executive Director, Brady PACJosh Levs, Award-winning journalistRep. Ted Lieu, U.S. Representative (CA-33)
Mark Linton, Former Obama Administration OfficialCharles Loflin, Executive Director, Unitarian Universalist FaithAction NJHon. Alan Lowenthal, Member of Congress (CA-47)Jonathan Lowy, Vice President, Legal & Chief Counsel, Brady
Chris Martin, ColdplayBrian Mason, District Attorney, 17th Judicial District, ColoradoEric McCormack, ActorSeamus McGraw, Journalist, Author of From a Taller Tower
Jarrett McNeill, Dad to Tristan and OpheliaDavid Min, California State Senator, 37th DistrictRoss Misher, CEO, Brand CentralBrian Monahan, Global Client President, Head of US Ventures
Reggie Moore, Director, Division of Violence Prevention Policy and Engagement, Medical CollegeBrian Moran, Virginia Secretary of Public Safety and Homeland SecurityDarryl Morin, National President, Forward LatinoJared Moskowitz, Former Director of the Florida Division of Emergency Management
Rep. Frank Mrvan, U.S. Representative (IN-01)Bryan Muehlberger, Survivor, Business Leader, Gracie’s DadGov. Phil Murphy, Governor (NJ)George Derek Musgrove, Associate Professor of History, UMBC
Alan Nagy, Mayor, Newark, CAMalcolm Nance, Executive Director, TAPSTRIGov. Gavin Newsom, Governor (CA)Manny Oliver, Change the Ref Co-Founder, Guac’s Dad
Andy Parker, Alison’s DadPJ Pereira, Father, Writer, entrepreneur, Pereira O’Dell AdvertisingJohn Petersik, Author, Blogger, Young House LoveLonnie Phillips, Survivors Empowered
Anthony Portantino, California State Senator, 25th DistrictTony Porter, Father of TwoThomas Roach, Mayor of White Plain, New YorkRep. Mike Quigley, U.S. Representative (IL-05)
Kevin Quinn, Chair, Brady BoardBill Quirk, CA Assemblymember, District 20Mayor Andre Rainey, Mayor of Peekskill, NY, Father of 3Wayne Richardson, Remembering Darien, Darien’s Dad
Damon Robinson, MD, Holy Cross HospitalSteven D. Roland, Attorney, Father of ThreeSteven Rothstein, Brady Board MemberTJ Ryan, Veteran, Mental Health Activist
David Sable, Co-Founder/Partner DoAbleRaj Salwan, Councilmember, City of Fremont, CABabak Sarani, MD, FACS, FCCM, Professor of Surgery and Emergency MedicineDr. Chethan Sathya, MD, Pediatric Trauma Surgeon
Jeremy Saulnier, FilmmakerMax Schachter, Parkland ParentIan Schafer, Co-Founder and CEO, KindredJosh Scharff, Legal Counsel & Director, Programs at Brady
Rep. Brad Schneider, U.S. Representative, (IL-10)Gordon Scott, Investment ProfessionalJosh Shapiro, Pennsylvania Attorney GeneralDavid Shore, Writer, Director
Jamaal Smith, Violence Prevention Manager, City of MilwaukeeMike Song, Song Strong, Ethan’s DadEd Stack, Former CEO, Dick’s Sporting GoodsJeremy Stein, Executive Director, CT Against Gun Violence
Grant Stern, Executive Editor, Occupy DemocratsTom Sullivan, Colorado Representative House District 34, Father of Alex Sullivan, murdered July 20 2012 in Aurora Theater MassacreScott Surovell, Virginia Senator, District 36Rep. Eric Swalwell, U.S. Representative (CA-15)
James Taylor, Songwriter and GuitaristJohn Tecklenburg, Mayor of the City of Charleston, SCTom Teves, Alex’s Dad, Co-founder of No NotorietyWilliam Tong, Connecticut Attorney General
Drew Train, CEO, Oberland Ad AgencyChris Tsakalakis, CEO of KivaMichael Tubbs, Founder, Mayors for a Guaranteed IncomeWill Valentine, Founder/Principal, Valentine Advisors
Richard Valle, Alameda County (CA) Board of Supervisors, District 2Jeff Vespa, Vespa PicturesJason Wagenheim, President, Bustle Digital GroupJoe Walsh, Former Candidate for President, Former Congressman
Daniel Webster, Director, Johns Hopkins Center for Gun Violence Prevention and PolicyAndrew Weinstein, Attorney, Weinstein Law FirmBen Wexler, Writer, Producer, DirectorStephen White, Retired NFL Player
Bradley Whitford, ActorNick Wilcox, Laura’s Dad and California Legislative AdvocateJudd Winick, CartoonistKavan Yee, Principal, Lowell School
Rep. Ro Khanna, US Representative (CA-17)Rep. Mark DeSaulnier, US Representative (CA-11)